Passion Lost?

I believe everyone goes through this phase... whether married or not. But I do wonder at times if I'm being unrealistic or just overtly romantic.

We watch so much television and read too many romance novels that the Passion just gets stuck in our head as though it's true...and real to everyone. Hmm... is it real? Or is it not? What defines passion? Is it love? Is it romantic actions? I really don't know...

I guess it only exist during courtship...after that, we'll just have to settle for the mundane.

Or can it be changed? I heard on a radio spot that mentioned Simon Yam (HK actor) still calls his wife his girlfriend. His rationale was to keep the Passion alive. I guess he feels that as long as he still treats her as his "girlfriend", the courtship is still ongoing and therefore, the passion or romance will continue in the relationship. What do you think? Believable?

I might just suggest this to hubby... hehehheheehee.... but it seems so stupid. Don't you think? It's just like the show where Zoe had lots of babies. I still remember the very first scene of the story. She was in a pub and her hubby was in the pub too. And they acted as though they just met, flirting with each other. Kind of like play acting/role playing. Yet it seems so silly to me if I were to do that.

Paul feels that if there's a baby, we won't feel so bored or feel that our life is so uninteresting. I don't agree, but that's another topic altogether. Will tackle that in another post in the future.

To end, if there is ever a conclusive answer... at this point in time(in my life), I'm just seeking attention. And I want lots of it, especially from hubby.

You know, maybe it's just because I'm reaching 30!